Yesterday was a huge milestone for my wife.
It has been an incredibly long, difficult journey. One that started years before we ever met. One filled with obstacles, detours, pitfalls, much hard work, and a few big disappointments. In fact, the disappointments got so big that at one point the Dream seemed to die. But she always kept going, and yesterday realized the attainment of the goal she dreamed about as a little girl.
If you ask her when she started wanting to be a nurse, she’ll tell you “as far back as I can remember.” Indeed, if anyone has ever been called to be a nurse, it was my wife. She loves people, cares deeply about them, she loves to serve, she loves to nurture. It feeds her soul.
She began pursuing the Dream at PCC. Three and a half years later, the Dream was crushed and she was back home wondering if it was all a big mistake. But God kept it alive, and due to her parent’s encouragement (and later mine! We met a while after she was home from PCC), a year or two later she was ready to tackle it again.
She entered the ADN program at Bethel College, and began the whole process anew. There were many tough days and weeks, for she also worked part time as a Nurse’s Aid at Goshen General Hospital. Oh yes, and she worked the night shift. Some semesters her schedule kept her going for two days with next to no sleep.
And of course we got married somewhere in the middle, I’m not sure if that helped or hindered the school career! But no matter how tough it got, she kept going.






God has been faithful, and has been there through all the highs and lows. I’m very proud of my wife, and I love her very much.
At this point, she’s planning to go back to school this fall for her Bachelor’s completion. What with some classes transferring from PCC, it will only be one night a week for eighteen months or so, and it seems to make good sense to do that now. But the hardest work is over!
12 Responses
April 30th, 2006 at 6:52 pm
That’s great! Congratulations, Mrs. ITF! Glad to know that there will be a qualified person around to take care of Mr. ITF’s booboos and to make sure he doesn’t keep combining pain meds for his dentist trips.
May 1st, 2006 at 12:41 am
Congratulations! What an accomplishment!
May 1st, 2006 at 9:46 am
I hope I can have the same drive and energy if I choose to go back to school that Jewel had. What an accomplishment. (Great post Mr. ITF)
May 1st, 2006 at 11:29 pm
Congratulations to Mrs. ITF!!!! (The pictures are great!)
May 2nd, 2006 at 12:56 am
Awesome, Awesome, Awesome Jewel. I’m so proud of you!!!!!! I can almost hear you laughing in those pictures.
May 2nd, 2006 at 1:21 pm
Well, done, Jewel!
I am so grateful for nurses.
Now make sure the computer keyboards are sanitized.
(If necessary, click my name for further details.)
May 2nd, 2006 at 7:46 pm
Congratulations! As an ADN RN myself, I speak from personal experience about what an accomplishment you’ve achieved. I know of at least 1 completely online RN-to-BSN programs that can be taken without any additional clinical or attendance necessary, and completed in 18 months as well. Enjoy getting paid to do all the dirty work, rather than paying someone else to let you do it. :0)
May 2nd, 2006 at 7:48 pm
I didn’t mean for that to sound as conceited as it did….I just meant that I know what a CHALLENGE the classes can be if you have any other kind of a life besides school. :)
May 3rd, 2006 at 6:28 pm
By the way…when does she take boards?
May 3rd, 2006 at 6:39 pm
Don’t know yet, I registered her but we haven’t heard back. She wants to do it as soon as possible.
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